Rounding the corner into the kitchen, my nose was overwhelmed by a stench I would categorize as “larger than life.” I peered over to the spot where the trash can stood. The lid was cracked open, garbage hung over the edge and a few pieces laid on the floor.
Umph.
Who had trash duty? Are family members not completing their responsibilities? This mess was not my fault! I may be the mom of this rowdy bunch, but certain lines will not be crossed.
A stinky attitude spilled out of me. My first reaction was as rotten as the scent filling my nostrils. Without hesitation, filthy judgment and negative responses oozed from my lips.
Relieved, I looked around the room to realize no one heard my pungent words. Almost immediately my heart resounded, “God does.” The jolt of reality was felt all through my being. As I stood in the kitchen that afternoon, I came face to face (or nose to face) with my sin nature.
Judgmental negativity.
“You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar. You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O LORD, you know it altogether.” Psalms 139:2-4 (ESV)
This clear statement from the Bible explains how well God knows us. He sees all. He does not need a “find-my” app to know where I am. Outward actions and inward thoughts are completely on His radar. Time and time again I slip into bad habits, unkind assumptions or rude behavior. The garbage from within flows outward only to damage those around me. While this truth can create security for our hearts, conviction will arrive in full force when we make choices outside of God’s path.
King David, the writer of Psalm 139, was familiar with the far-reaching harmful consequences of sin. He longed for a society where dedicated honor to God and His Word was taken seriously. His experiences give room to insight we can emulate. In verse 10 he penned these words, “…even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me.” Then the chapter finishes in verse 24 with these words, “…and lead me in the way everlasting!” Notice the words underlined. LEAD ME.
The key message David wants to communicate is to let God lead. It sounds incredibly simple, but what does it look like in everyday life? How can my reactions become a reflection of God’s Word? Here are some examples.
When I see an overflowing garbage can I might react in one of two ways. I can allow anger and annoyance jump to the forefront of my mind. Or, I can choose to reflect God’s Word and calmly call to the family asking who has completed their jobs for the day. This choice leaves room for the person responsible for taking out the trash to step forward without shame. Grace in action.
If someone steps in front of me in line at the store, immediately I roll my eyes, cross my arms and huff loud enough for all to see how unjust this moment is for me. Or, I can choose to reflect the Bible by asking the person if they are ok, or in a rush, or maybe ask to help them. Kindness in action.
A neighbor can let their unkept leaves blow into the yard creating extra work. Angry words spouted across the property line will clearly state an opinion. Or, lending a helping hand to clean up the yard when the leaves first fall could open a door to create a positive relationship where the gospel message could be shared. Self-control in action.
Smelly garbage comes in many forms. Be ready with a prepared mind to dispense sweet fragrances found in Scripture.
I realize as I heave the odor ridden bag towards the outside trash bin, I should toss out my rotten attitude as well.
Lean in…allow God to lead your first reactions.
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